The Sad Part of Being Us

Posted on | August 27, 2012 | 4 Comments |

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I don’t talk much about being a military wife/family on this blog. I don’t do it in real life either. It’s not that I’m not proud of what hubby does, but it’s mostly because I want a clear separation of work and home. I do let the husband talk about his day but once it’s done, it’s done. I don’t though approve of him talking about work related stuff at get togethers. There are just too many other things to talk about at a get together than work. He still does it now and then but when I hear, he gets the look… or my smart ass comment.

Being here as a military family, a temporary ex-pat I like to call it, and having military friends do come at a price. People come and go quicker – or maybe they don’t go as quick but time seems to move faster here (we’re almost to our 3yrs mark!). And each time our friends leave, not only do I get sad for their departure, I also got sad thinking that one day, it’ll be our turn. A double sad whammy.

I know that it’s how it is and maybe one day we’ll meet again (the military is magical in that matter) but goodbyes (unless you don’t like each other) are always difficult.

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  1. ~amy~ posted the following on August 27, 2012 at 12:42 pm.

    sweet pic of the girl…great post…good byes stink

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  2. Heidi Z posted the following on August 27, 2012 at 12:49 pm.

    I feel that same way. The military has its perks but it is still hard saying goodbye no matter how long you’ve been in. I also think leaving a place where your children had a lot going on makes things worse then when they were younger and it was easier to move. Hugs ! The ups and downs
    Of the military! It isn’t for the weak of heart, right ? !

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  3. Guenevere posted the following on August 27, 2012 at 2:05 pm.

    Fitting picture…Hard to believe it has almost been 3 yrs…One day, I hope that our paths will cross again. Miss you!

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    1. Savitri posted the following on August 30, 2012 at 11:17 pm.

      Miss you guys too!

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